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Relationship  advice, programs, and coaching to help you find the love of your life and the life that you love

Relationship  advice, programs, and coaching to help you find the love of your life and the life that you love

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How to catch a cheating spouse, S. Paul How to catch a cheating spouse, S. Paul (e-Book, 78 pages)

This is an easy to read book even though the subject matter is difficult to contemplate. In the book, the author starts with the one thing you must not do if you suspect your partner is cheating. The book continues with chapters on gathering evidence and includes sources for tools and equipment you can use to gather proof of infidelity. As an added bonus, the author includes a link to software that can reveal passwords on protected email accounts.

Some of the best parts of the book include sections on lying and lie detection, and guidance for conducting yourself during and after discovering an affair. This book is a short, easy read and would be a great help for all those people who suspect their partners are having affairs. Highly recommended.

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Break Free from the Affair, R. Huizenga Break Free from the Affair, R. Huizenga (e-Book, 90 pages)

If youve suffered the hurt and betrayal of having your partner cheat on you, you will want to read this book. As the author points out, even though the affair was not your fault, it will change your relationship forever. Also, all affairs are not the same. Cheaters have different motivations for their affairs. This book helps you identify each type so you are better prepared to break free of the affair; either by stopping it and fixing your relationship, or by leaving the cheater and creating a better life for yourself.

Once you have identified the type of affair youre dealing with, the author offers his estimate of successfully stopping the affair and moving your relationship past it. At the end of the book, the author also lists seven tactics you can use to stop the affair "NOW" and break free. If youve been cheated on, you will find your situation described in this book. We recommend this book to help you put together the pieces of your shattered world.

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Anatomy of an Affair, R. Sommer Anatomy of an Affair, R. Sommer (e-Book, 115 pages)

This book starts out with the real reasons people have affairs. According to the author, it's not what you think. She goes on to present case studies which are more interesting than they sound here. A valuable part of the book is the discussion of the five types of affairs and the likelihood that the marriage can be saved for each type. If you're the victim of cheating, you'll know what to expect in the future.

There is also a section on the signs a spouse is cheating. The author states that "there are always signs a spouse is cheating". Some victims stay in denial because the truth is too painful. But, the sooner you acknowledge the truth, the better you can deal with the situation. Finally, the book discusses the myth of the "seven-year itch". Is it real or just a myth? Get the book and find out.

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Catch a Cheating Lover, E. TalurdeyCatch a Cheating Lover, E. Talurdey (2 e-Books, 106 and 68 pages)

This 2 volume set is somewhat depressing in its message, but important if you think youre being cheated on. The author contends that as many as 80% of all married people cheat sometime during their marriages. If you think your partner is cheating, he/she most likely is.

These books spell out specifically what to do first if you suspect cheating. Next, the author shows you a number of ways to collect the hard evidence you need to take action against the cheater. Book 2 is a 7-day plan you can follow to protect yourself. If you even just suspect there is cheating going on, get this book and read it privately before you do another thing.

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Instant Detective Instant Detective (Website, paid access)

This website contains a suite of software and search engines. Included are Internet Detective software, a key logger, Crime Catcher software, and searchable public databases. The site claims you can trace missing persons, do background checks on nannies, employees, and lovers, and check partners for previous lawsuits, criminal records, alimony payments, and marital history.

The site requires a modest one-time payment and includes a free trial. If you need more information about a lover or spouse, check out this software.

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Web InvestigatorWeb Investigator (Website, paid subscription)

This is an online search engine that claims to have access to thousands of public and private databases. Their tag line states "search and investigate anyone". With all the personal data floating around out there, it's probably true.

We've not performed a search with this site, but it looks complete. And, at $29.95 for a year's access, it's hardly a major investment. Another tool for you if you need to know more about that certain someone you met online.

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Cyber Detective
Cyber Detective (8 Website package, paid subscription)

This site is actually a sales portal for eight other sites. Most you will probably never use. However, we noticed that Web Investigator (see above) is one of the sites in the package. And here, the package is $10 less than subscribing to Web Investigator by itself!

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Cell Phone Magic (Reverse Lookups)Cell Phone Magic (Reverse Lookups)

This is a website where you can enter a cell phone number and find out who owns it. There currently are no directories for cellular phone numbers. Thats probably a good thing if you dont like telemarketers. But, if you suspect your partner is talking to someone he shouldnt be, heres a way to get proof.

Each name trace is $79.95. Thats pretty expensive, but consider whats its costing you if your partner is having an affair. The good news: if they site cant get the name, there is no charge to you.

To get the name behind a cell phone number, Click Here.
 
Get Rid of Abusive RelationshipsGet Rid of Abusive Relationships

This is a short, but worthwhile, book if you've been abused in a relationship, or especially if you noticed a pattern of abuse in many of your previous relationships. The book covers why abuse occurs, warning signs that someone is an abuser, and ways to heal and survive the abuse. Nowhere, however, is there specific information on stopping the abuse, or escaping the abuser.

This book serves a purpose by demonstrating that victims don't have to accept their situations. Nobody deserves to be abused. If this book inspires you to change your life and stop the abuse, then the book will have been very worthwhile.

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Last Updated: 09/22/2005

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