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Cheating & Affairs
 How
to catch a cheating spouse, S. Paul (e-Book, 78
pages)
This is an easy to read book even
though the subject matter is difficult to contemplate.
In the book, the author starts with the
one thing you must not do if you suspect your partner
is cheating. The book continues with chapters on
gathering evidence and includes sources for tools
and equipment you can use to gather proof of infidelity.
As an added bonus, the author includes a link to
software that can reveal passwords on protected
email accounts.
Some of the best
parts of the book include sections on lying and
lie detection, and guidance for conducting yourself
during and after discovering an affair.
This book is a short, easy read and would be a great
help for all those people who suspect their partners
are having affairs. Highly recommended.
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 Break
Free from the Affair, R. Huizenga (e-Book, 90 pages)
If you've suffered the hurt and betrayal
of having your partner cheat on you, you will want
to read this book. As the author points
out, even though the affair was not your fault,
it will change your relationship forever. Also,
all affairs are not the same. Cheaters have different
motivations for their affairs. This book helps you
identify each type so you are better prepared to
break free of the affair; either by stopping it
and fixing your relationship, or by leaving the
cheater and creating a better life for yourself.
Once you have identified the type of
affair you're dealing with, the author offers his
estimate of successfully stopping the affair and
moving your relationship past it. At the
end of the book, the author also lists seven tactics
you can use to stop the affair "NOW" and
break free. If you've been cheated on, you will
find your situation described in this book. We recommend
this book to help you put together the pieces of
your shattered world.
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this book now. Click here. |
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 Anatomy
of an Affair, R. Sommer (e-Book, 115 pages)
This book starts out with the real
reasons people have affairs. According
to the author, it's not what you think. She goes
on to present case studies which are more interesting
than they sound here. A valuable part of the book
is the discussion of the five types of affairs and
the likelihood that the marriage can be saved for
each type. If you're the victim of cheating, you'll
know what to expect in the future.
There
is also a section on the signs a spouse is cheating.
The author states that "there are
always signs a spouse is cheating". Some victims
stay in denial because the truth is too painful.
But, the sooner you acknowledge the truth, the better
you can deal with the situation. Finally, the book
discusses the myth of the "seven-year itch".
Is it real or just a myth? Get the book and find
out.
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Why Women Cheat, T.
Luv (online e-Book-cannot print or download)
This is a VERY lengthy
and thorough discussion of all the factors that
are involved in woman/wives cheating on their
partners/spouses. Many different types
of cheating are covered along with the motivations
behind the cheating. Good examples of the differences
in how and why men and women cheat. If you're
looking for a simple, straightforward answer,
you won't find it here. This is because there
are many psychological, emotional, cultural factors
that are involved.
There is a particularly
insightful and funny section on hormonal changes,
including a story about a man's monthly cycle
(what if men had periods). If you have
been the victim of a cheating wife, or if you
have been the cheating wife yourself, this book
will be revealing and insightful for you. Especially
good is the discussion about the real reason women
cheat, and the differences between men and women.
We were pleasantly surprised by the depth and
seriousness of this book. Highly recommended.
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 Catch
a Cheating Lover, E. Talurdey (2 e-Books, 106 and
68 pages)
This 2 volume set
is somewhat depressing in its message, but important
if you think you're being cheated on. The
author contends that as many as 80% of all married
people cheat sometime during their marriages. If
you think your partner is cheating, he/she most
likely is.
These books spell out
specifically what to do first if you suspect cheating.
Next, the author shows you a number of
ways to collect the hard evidence you need to take
action against the cheater. Book 2 is a 7-day plan
you can follow to protect yourself. If you even
just suspect there is cheating going on, get this
book and read it privately before you do another
thing.
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Instant Detective (Website, paid access)
This website contains a suite of software
and search engines. Included are Internet
Detective software, a key logger, Crime Catcher
software, and searchable public databases. The site
claims you can trace missing persons, do background
checks on nannies, employees, and lovers, and check
partners for previous lawsuits, criminal records,
alimony payments, and marital history.
The site requires a modest one-time payment and
includes a free trial. If you need more information
about a lover or spouse, check out this software.
To
get this software now, Click Here.
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 Web
Investigator (Website, paid subscription)
This is an online search engine that
claims to have access to thousands of public and
private databases. Their tag line states
"search and investigate anyone". With
all the personal data floating around out there,
it's probably true.
We've not performed
a search with this site, but it looks complete.
And, at $29.95 for a year's access, it's
hardly a major investment. Another tool for you
if you need to know more about that certain someone
you met online.
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Cyber Detective (8 Website package, paid subscription)
This site is actually a sales portal
for eight other sites. Most you will probably never
use. However, we noticed that Web Investigator
(see above) is one of the sites in the package.
And here, the package is $10 less than subscribing
to Web Investigator by itself!
To
subscribe to this suite of sites, Click Here.
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 Cell
Phone Magic (Reverse Lookups)
This is a website where you can enter a
cell phone number and find out who owns it. There
currently are no directories for cellular phone
numbers. That's probably a good thing if you don't
like telemarketers. But, if you suspect your partner
is talking to someone he shouldn't be, here's a
way to get proof.
Each name trace is $79.95. That's pretty expensive,
but consider what's it's costing you if your partner
is having an affair. The good news: if they site
can't get the name, there is no charge to you.
To
get the name behind a cell phone number, Click
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 Communication
Magic, S. Collins and O. Collins (e-Book, 77 pages)
As the title indicates, this book is about
improving your communications, especially with your
partner. The authors draw on personal experiences
to describe their own communication problems and
the steps they take to resolve them.
Among the topics in the book are: the 4
ways to communicate within a relationship and steps
to take to improve your communication skills. The
authors include real life examples, tips, and exercises
you can do to clean up your communications with
your partner. By being responsible for communicating
and listening, you can create greater intimacy and
less stifle in your relationship.
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Creating Relationship Magic, S. Collins and
O. Collins (e-Book, 122 pages)
This book is more like a reference manual
for relationships. It is divided into
52 short (2-3 pages) chapters on the various issues
in all relationships. Rather than reading from
page 1 to the end-typical with most books-you
can zero in on the issues most important to you.
Some issues are negative: blame, fear, jealousy,
lying. Others, however, are positive and aspects
of relationships we all want: forgiveness, intimacy,
passion, and trust.
It's likely that not all chapters will
have relevance for you. But, there's
enough "stuff" here to create new personal
insights and even to open discussions with your
partner. The material is easy to read, but still
important and worthwhile.
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 "Should
You Stay or Should You Go?" Susie and
Otto Collins (e-Book, 119 pages)
Before Susie and Otto
married each other, they had both been in long
term marriages. Both had decided that
their previous relationships were not what they
wanted, so they left their spouses and divorced.
As a result of the soul-searching each went through
en route to their divorces, they co-wrote this
book to assist others in evaluating their own
situations.
As the Collins' admit,
this is not a typical book. Rather, it
is more of a workbook or guidebook. In the book,
you will not find any advice or recommendations.
You will find, however, 19 chapters of questions
to ask-and answer- yourself while you are deciding
if your relationship can be saved or should be
saved. Chapters include "Finding Your True
Self", "Identifying Patterns of the
Past", "Flirtations and Affairs",
and "Sorting it all out".
The questions are all
simple and straightforward. They are
the questions every thoughtful person would ask
herself before making such a major life decision
as seeking a divorce. However, there is value
in working through all the considerations and
writing down your thoughts. There may be some
issues you haven't considered, or issues you haven't
fully thought through.
The authors take no
position on staying in or leaving a marriage.
Their purpose is for the reader to make an informed,
deliberate, and honest evaluation of the current
relationship. In this way, the reader will most
likely make the best decision for himself/herself,
and ultimately for the other person as well.
Rather than stay in
mental and emotional turmoil, you may want to
get this book. Working through the questions
can give you a sense of guiltlessness and thoroughness
that will bring you comfort and strength regardless
of whether you stay or whether you go.
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